Sometimes in your life you make lots of new promises to do something different and something better than ever before. Times goes on, you work harder, try to be punctual, do everything that you need to do to achieve your goal but at the end, you get nothing but disappointment. This is the time when you try to figure out what mistakes you have made that prevented you to achieve your targeted goals. Well, if everything was in order then what was wrong with you? Was it your approach towards your goal? Or your goal itself was wrong?
May be you need to change your approach towards your goals. It has been observed in many cases that when you have a goal such as losing 20 pounds of weight, you try to focus too much, you see yourself many times into the mirror every day, you become so much conscious about your goal and sometimes overdo to achieve your target rather than focusing on quality. Working too much is resulted into negative impact on your body because your metabolism gets slower and the resources of energy gets burned. You can’t find the strength and energy to perform your regular workouts and finally you give up.
If you become less careful about your goals and achievements, you will still be improving and getting stronger. You simply need to realize the importance of the potential that your body has and this is what actually enables it to achieve more for you. When you are mentally relaxed, you will find yourself much more confidence than ever before.
As far as the food is concerned, you don’t have to worry about it and there is no need to fight a whole battle to stop yourself eating. You just have to change the way you eat. Move your hands towards healthy foods rather than unhealthy foods. Just depriving yourself of foods will not make your slimmer and thinner. In fact, you will be weaker when you don’t eat properly. This will make your condition worse and your body will not find the courage to achieve your goals.
If you are ready to make a different resolution this time, you must be ready to change the way you think. Set your goals but make them positive rather than being too much negative or setting a goal which is almost impossible to attain. Make it interesting and find a source of motivation for you to achieve your goal, if you plan to get six pack abs in next May, it might be a little difficult for you to achieve because you don’t have a source of motivation.
However, if you promise yourself that you will surprise your girlfriend on her next birthday with your six packs, you have found the source of motivation and now you have enough time to plan and achieve your target. If you want to get rid of 150ibs, don’t say you want to lose 150ibs but get yourself registered for a running competition or something else that can help you stay on right track without rush.